Music, From Hearts to Hearts…
I’m writing this in response to, or rather to compliment what Chee Fai wrote in his “I Wish I Can Play Music” entry in http://faiker.wordpress.com/2008/04/22/i-wish-i-can-play-music/#comments.
Indeed, there are many reasons that would support the urge to create & play music. For me, one is unable to play real music when the purpose is to impress the other sex, full stop. Music should be taken up for the sole reason of the love & joy for music itself. I was lucky to have a dad who forced me to press my tiny little fingers against the keys of a piano back when I was too young to understand that in order to go really far in music, love & interest is not enough without talent or practice. However, after a few maturing years of constant training & practising, I then understood that more importantly, without loving & enjoying the music you play, when it doesn’t come from the heart regardless of how hard you practise, when the vibrations creating beautiful sounds does not send you tingles even a bit, your music will never be as good as it should be.
As such, music is to be what it always should be, from the heart. That’s what so great about it in the 1st place, when you play music in the sincerest & most honest of ways, chances are it’s already good music without you realizing it.
Adding on, I would also like to point you all to the other side of music. Beautiful isn’t it, when music can be loved & enjoyed in many ways aside from creating or playing it; it is also meant to be heard & shared. After all, what good is playing music when there are no ears (whether your own or others) to appreciate it. Everyone who loves music can play a role, from playing to listening to sharing; that makes music beautiful & unique. Everyone who plays music starts playing by learning other people’s music, & everyone improves their music by playing other people’s music! You listen to some good music a DJ was spinning at a club or on radio, or some random guy at the streets or at a pub, & you share it with your friends. Some try to learn the song, & then someone who just happened to hear it attempts to improvise with his own version. This then inspires one to create their own music, & someone else listens to that music & puts it up online, & the many other means of sharing it with others, & the cylce continues. Just take a look at the “Canon In D” electric guitar versions in YouTube, that was a phenomenon when so many people from all around the world just started sharing their own versions. So you see, everyone plays a role, the ability to listen, hear & appreciate music & then share it is very much an important talent as being able to play or create something.
Then we come to the question of comparing music with other talents. Well, I do not have an answer for that, nor can I answer why chicks supposedly dig musicians. But to put it simply, I can only say that music is the one thing that everyone can relate to, whether in love, anger, curiosity, frusfration, sadness & despair, & the most driving reason: hope. It gives us a sense of meaning of the ways of the world, & allows us to express ourselves & relate to others in ways only music could allow. When you can’t use your fingers to pluck the strings of a guitar, or to play the white & black keys of a piano, or you can’t use your hands to caress the bow against the strings of a violin, then use your ears & your heart to appreciate music, because other capable fingers & hands need them. You never know when someone needs them, & who knows, you just might have made someone’s day.
From hearts, to hearts.
April 24, 2008 at 6:10 am
woei….chill chill!!!! bro..dont listen to edwin…i didnt hate u at all…lol…
i envy ppl can play music onli…i definitely think tat ppl can play music is talented too…just tat i dont unserstand y gals so into that talent compare to others…may be in a way i am jealous ppl can play music…LOL!!!
what u say is really true…ppl cant play music, is fine, as long as know how to appreciate music..=)
i appreciate music…the old faiker…hardly have chance to know bout western music…thats y i said i very glad to meet kaki music like u, chris joshua..opened up a new music world for me to explore…n i enjoy too much in it…
so when is the next concert? count me in!!!!
April 24, 2008 at 6:16 am
“For me, you cannot play real music when the purpose is to impress the other sex, full stop.”
–>tats y i said i wont learn to play instrument just for the sake to impress gals… i dont like to fake it.
April 24, 2008 at 7:14 am
wow.. my “sensei” has spoken.. all bow before the grandmaster, the successor to Lucifer.. hahaha, though i hate to admit, one thing i always envy about u… your studies better than me, musical talent…i need not elaborate any further, when it comes to sports it makes me feel like puking everytime i recall of your appearance in TV during SUKMA… and damn, all the ladies are all after you (yahh you heard that right mrs.wong) … thank god i ran away to temerloh during secondary where it’s less challenging (especially when u have someone like chee fai, ROFL). Well, after counting everything, it ain’t just ONE thing right? LOLz..
Despite all that, i never regretted having buddies like you around me, instead you’re almost an inspiration for me to become better.. i remember my sudden boost of height in secondary school, and i eventually became taller than you.. it was one of the happiest moment of my life.. Finally something that u can never keep up with me.. wahahaha.. (ps: i drank 3 glasses of “Grow” choco milk everyday and jumped 100 times in the toilet before bathing) sweet revenge i must say!
Ahhh kinda off topic here.. All in all, about your comments above..’bullseye’ ! Everyone have their own opinion about this, though i am not somewhat a musician, i agree that music are related to the heart.. and it doesn’t takes a rocket scientist to love and enjoy music.. as laid down by Elvis Presley – “I don’t know anything about music. In my line you don’t have to.”
The whole problem can be stated quite simply by asking, ‘Is there a meaning to music?’ My answer would be, ‘Yes.’ And ‘Can you state in so many words what the meaning is?’ My answer to that would be, ‘No.’
A quotation with regards to your topic :
“Music like religion, unconditionally brings in its train all the moral virtues to the heart it enters, even though that heart is not in the least worthy.”
-Jean Baptiste Montegut-
April 24, 2008 at 7:34 am
“thank god i ran away to temerloh during secondary where it’s less challenging (especially when u have someone like chee fai, ROFL).”
WTF???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i aint tat bad oh…ppl come out from “Happy” always better those from “St John”….LOL~~ ask kevin, jonathan, alvin…LOL!!!
April 24, 2008 at 8:01 am
lolz… you’re trying to use my buddies as ‘meat-shield’ ehhh`.. too bad, i ain’t gonna let it affect what i’m gonna say next…
Ever thought why they call Tadika Happy.. H A P P Y ? well it’s the same reason why they call Hospital Bahagia .. B A H A G I A!… if you get what i mean..
April 24, 2008 at 8:19 am
To Fai, I know Edwin is tokkokking la…lolz!!! He’s my roommate wert, you think who he learn how to bullshit from?
& I cannot answer any of your questions regarding why chicks dig musicians orwhy music is considered a awesome talent, which is why I didn’t comment on your entry instead wrote this entry, because I wanted to share about how people who didn’t play music have ways that contribute to the growth of music too!
Now, come to think of it, women probably love musicians because musicians are really good with their hands and fingers…
Joshua, majibek you, tok kok about the height thing, almost make me fall off my chair. Inspiration my ass la you, lawak gila. I can’t stop laughing damnit!!!!!
April 24, 2008 at 9:22 am
“women probably love musicians because musicians are really good with their hands and fingers”<—–quite true, but if this case, then i think all the gals like joshua, because he have a skilled tongue…look at his tok kok skill..
then u know…LOL~
April 24, 2008 at 12:09 pm
=.=
April 25, 2008 at 2:57 am
I <3 music, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forever and ever, amen.
lol
April 25, 2008 at 3:49 pm
i finally read finish the post properly and i got the joke, TONG GAY!
April 26, 2008 at 1:01 pm
kev: wtf, i am honest about the height thingy la.. i really drank 3 glasses of “GROW” choco milk everyday ..u know the one with the giraffe.. lolz, and i jump 100 times in the toilet b4 i shower.. how u think i grew so tall all of a sudden..
Plus i was being nice and semi-dramatic when i said that u were my inspiration… u should have just tag along with me… and if u are sharp enough, u should notice i said “you’re ‘ALMOST’ an inspiration to me” …ALMOST is the word u should pay attention at…ROFL.
ookok, honestly..when time flies and you grow more and more mature.. i came to learn how to appreciate my friends more.. and the most beautiful discovery is that we can grow separately without growing apart.
If I had to sum up friendship in one word, it would be “Comfort”.. Friends from my younger days, (you, Lenn, Alvin, Jon and etc.) had always been something special to me.. no matter how things had or will change, you guys will always be regarded as one of the blessing from God and I would not swap for the favor of the kings of the world. It takes a long time to grow an old friend.
Before this start turning into a love letter (which will definitely anger mrs.wong) .. i better cut the crap short and end this with… Friends forever *yuckkk, very old fashion*
April 29, 2008 at 2:13 pm
Oh its my secnd time leaving a comment on blog…
Talking bout gals go after musician….thats not very true… imagine a 200pound guy playing a damn good music….. would he able to get alot of gals fall for him?
I’m not saying gals go for guys with looks….. but i rather say that gals go for guys with talent…imagine you are a damn great sportsman, or a damn skilled dancer….maybe alot of gals will shift their eyes on you.. even if you are jus OK looking (but of coz, the better looking you are, the bigger the number would be, the world is realistic and cruel,sad sad)…
I learned music, just started 2 years ago… and i really enjoy it… Faiker….maybe u can try to learn music…never too late to learn anything….
But of coz, like kevin said, dun learn bcoz you wanna impress other sex…
Alot of ppl thought i started learning music bcoz i wanna dig up some gals. Oh come on, i can proudly say i gave up a gal bcoz i wanna use my time to improve my music skills…but think back now, kinda regret…hahahahha.
The reason i wanna learn music is……nah…to lazy to type…jus that the story starts from when i was very young…
Like the topic, from heart to heart…..lovemusics that touches my heart.
Damn…today abit emo….so my comment also abit emo..haha
April 30, 2008 at 1:07 am
The truth is…the reason Derrick, Isaac, & I drag our feet to UTP’s orchestra practice: girls who..um, are really talented in blowing the clarinet.
May 1, 2008 at 3:27 am
hahahah…thats not true kev… but thinking of it now….. kinda irresistable when i see them blowing the clarinet…… =)